Jose Ramos
Cristo Rey Jesuit School
Houston, Texas
A Life-Changing Journey: Discovering Italy
Traveling to Italy through the SDC Mare Splendente program was a once-in-a-lifetime
opportunity that left an indelible impact on my perspective, my appreciation for different cultures,
and my understanding of the world. Being accepted into the program was one of the most
exciting moments of my life. I had never imagined that I would be given the chance to immerse
myself so deeply in the rich culture, art, and history of such a magnificent country. The
experience was nothing short of transformative.
From the moment my SDC group arrived in Italy, I noticed stark contrasts between Italian life
and the life I was used to in the United States. Italy is stunning in every sense of the word—from
its breathtaking landscapes to its elegant architecture and historic monuments. I could not recall
a single unpleasant view; everywhere I turned, there was beauty. This visual richness set the
tone for a month filled with curiosity, gratitude, and awe. I made a conscious effort to maintain a
positive mindset throughout the journey, aware that this was an extraordinary opportunity not
everyone gets to experience.
One of the initial challenges I faced was the language barrier. I didn’t speak Italian, which made
me nervous at first. However, as a native Spanish speaker, I quickly realized that I could
navigate conversations with a little effort. The similarities between Spanish and Italian helped
me communicate with locals, order food, and ask for directions. With focus and attention to
pronunciation, I found myself feeling more confident each day. It was empowering to discover
how language connections can bridge cultural divides and create deeper human connections.
Staying with a host family in Reggio Calabria was one of the most enriching aspects. Through
them, I experienced daily life in southern Italy and saw firsthand the rhythm and traditions that
define the region. Their lifestyle stood in contrast to mine back in the United States. Life in
Reggio Calabria felt more peaceful, more connected to community and nature. There was a
sense of calm and security that struck me deeply—one that I often find missing in American
cities where violence and conflict are more prevalent. If I had the opportunity to speak publicly in
the United States, I would share what I learned about the importance of cleanliness, respect,
and community—values I observed so clearly in Italy.
One of the most powerful moments came when I watched the film Io Capitano, which tells the
harrowing story of a young African migrant who embarks on a dangerous journey to Europe with
his cousin. The film captures the horrors of human trafficking, desert crossings, and separation
from family. What made the experience even more impactful was the chance to meet the real
person behind the story. Hearing his testimony and understanding the resilience it took to
survive such a journey opened my eyes to global struggles and made me appreciate the
privileges and opportunities in my own life. It also made me realize that for many, Europe
represents hope, opportunity, and the chance to build a better future, even though the path is
often difficult and painful.
This summer journey would not have been possible without the support of my mother. Knowing
how much she worries about me, especially with this experience being international travel, I am
incredibly grateful that she allowed me to take part in this month-long program. Her courage and
trust gave me the freedom to grow, to explore, and to create unforgettable memories that I will
carry with me forever. I look forward to sharing these stories with my family and friends, not just
as memories, but as life lessons that will continue to shape who I am.
In the end, Italy gave me much more than beautiful views and delicious food—it gave me
insight, perspective, and a renewed sense of purpose. I came back with a broader
understanding of the world, a deep appreciation for different ways of life, and a strong desire to
advocate for positive change in my own community. This experience was not only educational, it
was transformational, and I will always be grateful for the opportunity to be a part of the SDC
Mare Splendente program.
